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Originally Posted by Sugar's Mom NO you are not wrong and don't let people lay a guilt trip on you. I was given away for adoption at two weeks old. I grew up knowing my biological mother but not having anything to do with her. I have eleven brothers and sisters. Some I have met and some not. Out of all that I know, I only have one sister that is worth anything. The others asked me for money and etc. I just stopped fooling with them and have lost contact with my sister that I like. Anyway, about ten years ago, one of my half brothers decided we ought to get together. two brothers, my mother and myself are the only ones that were interested. I hadn't seen her since I was eighteen when she tried to take my baby out of my arms and said, "let me hold my grandbaby". i snatched him back and told her she had lost claim to him when she gave me away. At the meeting my brothers arranged, the paper was there and made a big thing out of it. I had agreed only because i wanted some health history since I am older now and have had some problems. All she was interested in talking about was the rough life she had led. (Whore), prostitute and lots of other stuff. i wanted nothing at all to do with her. She did tell me who my real daddy was but he died very young. Wheen she passed, no one called me. I had always intended to go to her funeral to meet the rest of my biological family. I saw it in the paper and called the funeral home and asked to speak to my brother and sister. I cried my eyes out. Not because I felt like I had lost my mother but because my brothers and sisters had lost THEIRS and I knew they were hurt and couldn't help the way they were raised. That was several years ago and I haven't spoke to any of them since but i do think about my sister a lot and might try to connect with her. |
This is crazy...I have so many brothers and sisters as well because he constantly cheated on my mom...I've met almost all of them except 1 or 2. Thank God they also came out to be responsible and caring ppl.
V..I know what you mean and sometimes I feel like we are the only ppl he has and my mother tells me the same thingl...go see him.. he's your dad and my stepfather tells me the same thing too but I just don't know...all the anger inside of me comes out and its not like he is caring...he's still snotty and all he wants is for me to bring him money for cigarettes and food. I do take him food everytime I go see him and I give him some money for soda and his cigarettes but like I told him why do you call my house when you need something...why can't you call me and see how I'm doing or how your grandkids are doing...and this is what he said..."FOR WHAT" All of this is so hurtful and my family does not need to be exposed to this negativity.
When he's at his last I will be there.