I am not sure I understand all of this. I dont understand this donut thing. I am also not sure if I am one of the 'bad new members'. I sorta take everything personally. I know I talk too much, but overall I have thought this was fun. I do have new babies, which is why I found this forum, to get ideas and advice for what has been a stressful time for me. I am not trying to sell them, I am probably going to keep them all (except one I promised to my friend). I would even be an indian giver for that one if I was like that, cause I want it too. I don't think it hurts anyone to hear opinions, even if you don't agree - or if it is wrong. That is where corrections can be made. Now that we have internet, we have the world at our fingertips. I can remember not so long ago when that was not the case. Research was more than typing a few 'key words', and you only had you 'often misinformed friends' to give you advice. Which reminds me of how we had babies in the first place. One of my dear friends said a one year old male did not know how to 'do it'. I doubted that, but chose to believe her, cause it was the easiest - not to have to separate the kids. Did I say I talk too much? :zip: I love icons, too - and have been dying to use that one
