I somewhat agree.  If you guys are doing everything for her she'll never learn to do for herself and that's not going to help the girls.  If she is unable to do these things, then maybe she shouldn't have the girls?  I hate to say that, but if you can't take care of yourself and you are stealing from family and stuff.... Maybe you guys need to take the girls until your aunt gets it together.  Your mom can't keep paying the mortgage/ rent for them either.  I'm sure there is a limit to her funds, just guessing.  I'd be afraid to have her in my home again.    
I'm sorry.  I hope you guys find a solution. Best wishes.        |