 Marriage
You are married now. So your husband comes first. I probably wouldnt have told him about the bribe, the more hurtful words said between them the less likely they will ever like eachother. Your dad almost sounds like one of those mothers who dont want to let their baby boy go,except its dad & baby girl, lol. Do you all live w/him or something? Your dad needs some space & time to except that you have grown up. When you feel its right I would write him a letter or tell him that you appreciate all he's sacrificed for you & that you love him but you are a grown woman now & you want to have your own family & keep it together & you'd love him to be apart of your family & are willing to give him sometime to adjust but you want your marriage to work & you hope he'll be happy for you. I hope your husband loves you & is a good supporter in every way. Take care of him & dont let yourself be torn. You shouldnt have to choose but once you're married you've chose your husband. |