It sounds like your Dad is jealous.
Explain to your Dad that you are happy in your marriage, and tell him how much it hurts you that he won't at least try to be civil to your husband.
Beyond that there isn't much yfou can do. You can't control another person, you can only control how you react to what that person does.
It is not fair for your father to try to make you choose between the two. His doing that is an attempt to control you. My guess is he has always been a control freak
I hope it all works out for you. |