Its funny that we as woman get the 'choice' of what we want to do with 'our' babies..whether that means to keep, adopt or abort...but a man get absolutely no say..
If he dosent want to be a part of the babies life if we keep it...we force him to by making him pay support.
In my situation we kept our baby, got married, had two more kids, divorced yada yada yada...he pays support, sees and loves his children...BUT...had he decided from day one he didnt want to be a part of a babies life..I would have had him sign off on the child...just like I would had I adopted the baby out...why dont men get a say from day one like we do?? I mean if they have decided to be a part of the childs life..then that is what they agree to no matter what happens...but if they decide not to be a part of their lives..why force it?? Sure he helped create the child...but when we decide to abort or adopt out a child that WE helped create..then its ok??
Just the flip side and my own opinion...
Dawn |