Whether the father likes it or not, and whether the father chooses to be a part of the baby's life or not, he is still legally obligated to help PAY for the baby. Tell him that he doesn't have to be a part of the baby's life, but take him to court for child support. They will start drafting monthly sums of money out of his paycheck before he even gets his paycheck and taht money will come to you for child support. He cannot get out of this so easily. He is obligated under the law to help take care of this baby financially, if nothing else.
And you are absolutely correct...if everyone waited until they were financially able to have children, NO ONE would have children. I was a complete accident. My parents were married, but they weren't "ready" to have children yet. My mom always tells me that she was so glad that I was an "accident" bc she said she never would have been "Ready" to have children. |