This must be hard!! When I left my husband I left him fast...I moved into a home where I couldnt take my cocker spaniel Denver and she was MY BABY!! He assured me he would keep her until I could find a home that would allow pets (a few months) and to be spiteful he GAVE HER AWAY!! I still keep in contact with the girl who got her...do you believe she wouldnt let me have her back?? I still cry for my denver and that was 4 years ago...
If you and your partner arent splitting on good terms and 3 hours is quite far for 'joint custody', I suppose you could try the legal route...sounds like it will be quite messy and I wonder how seriously you will be taken in court?? If you know she is legally on the paperwork then it might be a waste of time and effort?? I dont know an easy solution.
Would you consider getting yourself a new pup...to start a fresh new year with? Keeping intouch with your partner and hearing about the other two dogs through letters and pictures? I know you will miss them...gosh this is harder than I thought...there really is no easy answer to this one..im sorry your going through this..huge hugs..
Dawn |