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Originally Posted by red98vett Well.....I was not a strict mom and am super proud of my sons - the thing is - there WERE 2 girls in the room - it's a bit different than if it was just the daughter and this is all part of growing up - it would be alot different if they stole a car or something ....but sneaking boys into your room or house is part of being a teenager ...at least when I was a kid it was 
I still can't get over his response - that was a classic and I swear if I had heard a kid say that I'd have had a very hard time keeping a straight face
he sounds like he's been thru alot though and you're right to tell his mom too - |
Have you talked to teenagers today? Just because there were 2 girls in the room doesn't mean anything now a day! Our local town square was shut down to teenagers as the weekend 'hangout' because they were leaving used condoms and such behind!! Seems that now a day, doesn't matter if there are 2 people or 5 people involved or at least watching! Times have changed and kids aren't as innocent as they used to be. I do agree that this incident could have been completely innocent and harmless, but I would still have to pose some type of major punishment just for the fact that he snuck in the house at 2am in the morning......if it was an innocent 'I need to talk to you girls about a major problem I am having"...then why not just call! If my kids every came to me at 2 in the morning with this question of helping a friend, I would say, sure, use the Living room! Just my opinion though.....you do know you daughter better than any of us. Sorry to have posted twice, but this has bothered me since I read it. Good Luck