I was in this situation many years ago and kept my baby, the father fought me all the way. When two people sleep together they BOTH know the risks and share the responsibility regardless if someone is on the pill (you can't count on someone else to take it and they say it is not 100% safe). I'm sorry but that ain't no excuse for the father.
I swore to that baby that I would do all I could, baby and me against the world. It was not always easy and maybe the baby never had the "best" but let me tell you, we did fine. I got back with my true love and he has been so good to me and been a father to my baby. Things work out, the bond and the love you have for this baby will get you through anything.
The father did come around after a year or two and is a wonderful dad now. Things don't always work out this way but I do believe what you seek you shall find.
All the best!!!
