[lisatodd]

we had muffie for a year then got kirby. they would play fight all the time at first. i had to separte them sometimes b/c i thought muffie would hurt kirby. it took about two weeks for them to settle down. now i am a stay at home mom so i am here all of the time so it is easier. it was tough the first two weeks but well worth it. these two still play like puppies and would be lost without one another. they take care of each other. sleep together.
i never gave them separate bowls to eat from so that was never a problem. as i write this, they are just running around the house together.

i don't know if this will help. the only thing i can say is dont give up.