[Peters]

you have to also think about how you will work where will your kid be when you have to work . you can't go anywhere or do anything without worrying about your child! that's how it is for me anyways. i'm not a single mom but if i had to do it i know i could ,one way or another. your whole life changes when you have a baby you don't have anything to yourself any more ..i know that seems selfish ,but you can't even take a shower without having to keep an eye out for the little one and so on. if your not ready to basically give up everything the way you know it then you may not be ready to be a mommy most the time i still feel i'm not ready!. i still have hard times with my little girl and i'm married and daddy's in the pic. things aren't always sweet nice happy and cute when your mommy.anyways nobody can make this decision but you. good luck