It's a personal choice but let me just say that I'm mom to two beautiful and well loved boys. My two boys both adopted are now ages 13 and almost 11. My husband and I thank God every day that we have our sons. We're not rich. We don't live in a million dollar house, but our boys are well taken care of. What I'm saying is that money doesn't make you a good mom or day. You have to make the right choice for you because it's a choice you will have to live with for the rest of your life. I think the most important question is "Will you be able to provide a loving nurturing stable home life for your baby and do you want the responsibility involved with raising a baby" I know that pregnancy is a woman's right to choose and I realize that this may not be the right place but whatever your choice please carry your baby through. Adoption is a lot easier to live with then abortion. Best of Luck to you and if you ever feel that you'd like to chat privately I'd be happy to give you any input from and adoptive mom's end. Sometimes the choice is easier when you know first hand how much joy a child has brought to a parent that may otherwise never have known what it would be like to raise a baby. Best of luck to you. Elaine |