[baileysmom31]

Like everyone says.. this is a tough decision and I'm sure you'll bounce back and forth a million times. I can speak from another perspective... I am an adoptive Mom. My boys (twins) who are now 13 are the light of my life. I know that their birthmother had a really tough time making up her mind- she was 26- but in the end, she did what she thought was best. I have always believed that together we did something wonderful, she shared with me two sons and allowed me to be a mom, which was something I couldn't do and I am raising our two sons, something she couldn't do. So together, we have done a wonderful thing. Bless you while you make this important decision.