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Originally Posted by kitty Yes, I do disiplne him when he hits. I can't hit him though. He has gone to school before and told them that I beat him and I'm always being investigated by DHS for child abuse. He was mad at me once and went to school and stabbed himself with a fork then went to his teacher and told her I did it. I almost had my kids taken away over that incident. I have been cleared all the times I was investigated. The councilor at school said she can't help him because he won't talk to her. I just don't know what else to do. My son is afraid of Grandpa but my step mom is getting ready to take him to Kansas away from his grandfather. And she does spoil him so I agree that it is pointless to send him there if he only gets spoiled and not punished. |
Your step mother doesn't have that right unless you gave her power of attorney. YOU are his mother and if you want him with Grandpa, then so be it. Based off everything I've read it sounds like you both need some professional help. Him for his anger and you for the stress and how to cope.
Kitty, I don't know what's what and it's hard to tell just based off your postings. But I wish I was there. You need to stand up for yourself. Especially with your hubby. Crossing the line here and based on what you say, he's not there for you and could care less about your kids. Again, based off what you've told us in this post and previous post. Why would you tolerate that? You mentioned earlier your husband makes your son feel like a loser or something like that. Maybe that's your sons problem. Your husband and how he treats you and your children.
Just a thought. Sorry. You are just such a nice person and deserve so much more.