It always gets my blood boiling when ppl inset negativity into what should be a positive and welcomed event. But then I remind myself that not everyone can be as nice and understanding as I would want them to be... Don't let others get to you. As long as you are happy and your little ones are healthy and happy that is all that should matter. I for one have already started getting prepared for the same type of feedback once I announce I want yorkie #2 next year....