I am so sorry...I was reading this thread. I can't find much words to say and I am not one who knows how to talk a lot but try getting your daughter to understand and help? If she has such a kind heart of saving snails
, I am sure she will try to understand mommy.Sometimes, I find daughters to be more understanding than sons although I don't have kids of my own, in my relationship with my parents, i dinf it that way.