Please don't be hurt. If you haven't been there, you just can't understand. When you are depressed, you just can't do those things. It takes all of your initiative to climb out of bed. My husband's famous quote is, "Just get over it". If you could get over it, you wouldn't be depressed. And every time someone expects something of you that you can't give, it justs makes it worse.
The things you need to do just aren't within your ability at times. If she doesn't make it to see you as she said she would, don't take it personally, go to see her or have her meet you somewhere midway.
It really just doesn't make any sense to anyone that hasn't been there. You know what you should do, you just can't. Everything in life is too much effort. You are just tired and down and cannot even imagine being happy or enthusiasic.
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Originally Posted by Piccolo's mom Potter,
I am really hurt very badly just now. I had no idea about your depression or feeling lonely here, in Canada, when I first contacted you a few times and invited you to visit me and Piccolo. I even gave you my telephone #, directions to my house and locations of a go-train. I kept saying how much I wanted to meet you and your baby. And it was a few weeks ago. You never came , never called me and now I am reading how sad you are not having any friends to talk to. It really doesn't add up. If somebody offers you her/his frienship and you ignore it - you'll be alone no matter what.
I also told you that I have a beautiful parklike area around my house and we could take our babies there to have lots of fun. And since you take your puppy for a walk everyday, I thought it'll be fun for all of us.
I wish you all the best and try to think about what I wrote. |