Hugs to you Patti. I'm sorry for the loss. I know how hard it is. My uncle (dads brother) became an alcoholic after his mentally unstable wife committed suicide and left him and 3 very young kids behind. 15 Years later it's like he's getting worse. He has no one that respects him other than my mom. He lives in Australia, so it's hard to be there for him. I undestand how you must be feeling, but just try your best to take care of yourself and your husband. God will be taking care of your BIL now, and he is at peace. |