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Originally Posted by irishawk Don't worry about posting your personal problems here - many of us have done it at one point!
Now, onto your problem.. if you don't mind my asking, how old are the two of you? I wouldn't come right out and say that you're ready to get married. Start talking to him about the IDEA of marriage and what his thoughts on it are. Ask him how he's always pictured it playing out in his life and how long he thinks is an appropriate time to be dating first. In these situations I think communication is key. Best of luck to you! |
im 21 and he's 28. although i feel as if im 41. ive been on my own since i was 16.. so im not afraid to be alone and im not afraid to not have a man (heaven know's that i wouldnt be where i am with having one for all those younger years
but the funny thing is... is he talks about marriage all the time... its just never including me in it. he's not a good decision maker in any situation in life.. he likes to go to every store and compare every aspect.. so he usually depends on me to give him advice on everything... i just dont want to scare him by saying... hunny im ready to think about getting married... not tomorrow!...just ready to work towards a goal.... i just dont know why guys have to be so difficult to talk to about this!