I'm so sorry you are not feeling well.
Its sucks that your hubby is not there. Even though these are not his kids he should be able to help you out with them. He needs to understand that when he married you you weren't alone. I have 2 boys from a previous relationship and my fiancee now treats them like their his. He does everything with them. I was in a relationship before and this person gave me the impression that he wanted to be with me and not the kids....that was the last time I saw him. My kids are always going to be here...men can come and go. JMO - If no one can treat my kids like they treat me than they do not need to be in my life. I'm sorry to sound harsh but it is what it is.
Please don't take this the wrong way and I hope you start feeling better soon. |