I'm sorry but the whole post seems crazy to me.
You said you wrote a bunch of checks that bounced....WHY? You mean you just started writing checks when you knew her money had not cleared yet???? It seems you were the one writing bad checks ...Not her. She did a STOP PAYMENT but you were writing checks without money in your account with the HOPE her check would clear before yours bounced?????
i also don't understand why NOW you are calling her a bad person and saying how horrible she was for wanting to crate her dog 12 hours aday..... but you thought that was fine when you were getting $1800.
Maybe I'm reading something wrong here... I just don't know??????