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Originally Posted by doortego Oh gee, If I have offended, I've doubled it now. I was trying to edit my post to say that at times I've used the word bride, I should have said new mother or mom to be. I think I thought in the terms of bride because this is usually only done for the first time mother. I guess in our pompous little world, all subsequent children used hand me downs!
I hope I have had my tonque in my cheek but I am afraid it may have been my foot in my mouth instead. Please pardon my trampling all over your post. |
I didn't take offense to your post. I asked for everyones input.
This is hubby and I's first child and we are new to all of these things, so are our parents. It is going to be the first grandbaby on both sides. Most of hubby and I's friends no longer live near us so family is definately the only option we have in giving us a shower. For my bridal shower I had my maid of honor give me my shower and it was a total flop. She acted as if she had everything under control then at the last minute told my family she couldn't do it and my mom ended up doing that shower for her. My mom is my best friend and I couldn't think of a better person to ask to share this exciting time with more, except for hubby of course.
But again, I do appreciate your advice. I will be sure to post pictures!!!