"I have 2 young kids that are great with fergie. The real issue is that i just dont have alot of money because
we just had to use our entire savings to pay for a move due to a job transfer."
"i just filed bankruptcy so no i dont have alot of money and the reason i want to do this is to help pay for my family and the
move we are going to have to make in a few weeks which is gonna cost us over $3000."
Again, not to get on your case............which story is it? In one place you appear to have moved, and the other you are moving.
What you wrote is there...........can't go back. Just lets move on and have this locked.
Good luck