No I certainly dont think your to picky......I think you are being a good mom
Puppies are so prone to diseases and you just dont know for sure when their natural immunity wears off from moms milk.
I really dont like people viewing puppies until they are at least 6 weeks old. Cause everyone wants to touch them. Unless you hate animals who wouldnt want to touch and cuddle the lil sweethearts!
Even though you explained yourself, she may have been offended. You just never know what people are truly thinking. She might have thought you considered her dirty, or she might have been afraid the dog was to fragile and it could lead to problems. Or possibly she thought you were a tease!..........lol..........playing with that adorable puppy and not letting her play too! You big meany!
Id say most people who occupy yorkietalk are very educated on yorkies/puppies, if not at first they will be quickly because they have a true desire to learn and understand. But not all people have that knowledge, understanding and for whatever reason they may take things personally.
You had your puppies best interest at heart and thats what is the most important..