oh your poor little baby... you stay at your mom's during the day to stay away from overpossesive mil that's good. she has no right to tell you how to raise YOUR child...you are too nice...i used to be like that but got tired of everybody stepping all over me. Tell her to please respect your privacy, your weight, and esp. your child-rearing or there will be consequences such as supervised visitation with her grandbaby or no visitation at all. Beg your mom if you have to to go ahead and move in now even though your room is not finished....record the way your mil treats you and let your hubby, your mom, etc. listen to how crude she treats the mother of her son's child. Maybe they will all gang up on her. As far as making you do housework when you are still recovering from MAJOR surgery and poh-poohing your complaints of pain and discomfort....sh*t on that....ask her was she playin betsey homemaker right after her heart surgery???? and as for her digging in your stuff....dig in hers right in front of her face and when she says something about just tell her turnaround is fair play!!!eewwww....i done got my irish up over here just thinking about this mess.
you said you didn't want to tell your hubby about it cuz he'd get up in her face...well sweetie let him have at her....oh and by the way i hope you feel better soon and love your babies name...it's kind of close to mine which is christina. smoochies to the baby and hugs to you. tell that ol' turkeybutt where to get off and it'll put her in her place from now on....don't be a doormat to her...she sounds like she likes to put you down to build herself up and what kind of person is that for your baby to grow up around? BTW...JMO
