Hi guys
Thanks for all the responses
. My issue with him is not the anger I worked past that......it is that I feel sorry for him cause of his present situation. But I always feel that way for him and I always end up getting a kick in "A" for it.....somehow either by loosing out on happiness in my own life or by some wherr down the raod getting a barrage of insults/rejection from one of his family members which he will do nothing about or maybe evn find it a convienient way of getting rid of me while he doesn't need me.
But as most of you mentioned....his current situation "maybe" an opportunity for change....."OR" he just might get back with her and then the old sinario might or more than likely occur.
As we had said I think Iwill use this as an opprtunity to talk with him. I really don't know how it will go but I know loneliness can be a killer and I really feel for him at his age. I just really must maintain my independence to "ENJOY" my life cause they (the folks) can really do quite alot of damage (psyhcologically). I felt the funk already prob because I feel sorry for "him" and not me, lol. This right now is a burden, but a couple of cups of coffe won't hurt as long as I keep my wits.
Well when I came back and bend over don't hesitate to KICK
me right in the butt.
Thanks again ALL of you.
Tina
Pucci
GiGi