[candybaby]

No, problem it's good to know I'm not alone with these family problems, it's sooooooo hard sometimes. I always here everone tell me it's your brother he's your family, but sometimes I feel like he is a pain in my
a$%. How can you keep helping someone if they don't want to help themselves? It's not possible. As a matter of fact I haven't seen him in 3 years until last week and you think I would be happy to see him and when I seen him my heart dropped and I said Sh*^ he's here, what does he want. And of course he was the same old person, I could think of a way to get rid of him quick enough. Sometimes things are just not meant to be.

But, if I were you I would sit and talk to him and if he can respect your feelings and deal with it than thats good, but if he just ignores you and does not care about your feeling , than you don't want to set yourself up as a door mat. Your just going to have to cross him off, it's soooooooooooo sad to say but hey, what are you suppose to do if you tried to make a mends. But, I believe you do need to try and then go from there.