[candybaby]

Is what he did very unforgivable?? I would say make-up because you only live once and you don't want to stay made at each for the rest of your life. I know how you feel though, I have a brother that I can just ring his neck, but I still talk to him I just don't let him use me or anything and he knows that now.

Good luck family situations are always the hardest.

P.S.
As hard as it's going to be you need to let him know how you feel and let him know you want to be there for him only if he needs you and not to use you. If you keep your feeling bottled up your going to explode one day and it will not be pretty.