Hi guys
I know this is a really funny title but it does involve a family issue. I am not married and do not have children except for my two Yorkshire kiddies.
Of late (last 6months approx) and family member (brother) who I have not had anything to do with in about 5years has reappeared in my LIFE (!!!!!!
). He is about 20years older than me(and I am well into my adult life) and as a kid and young adult I looked up to him with great admiration and respect. Things changed though and a lot of it was cause of his beatch of a wife (who I have also known since I am a child). I have worked hard to rid my life of these "nervy" (Iwon't elbaorate) people. As a motter of fact I don't bother with anyone of my "relatives" as I do no longer consider any of them to be family.
The perplexity now is that he has moved back into the town I now live in and is "SEPARATED" from his beloved "beatch", lol. And has had some heart surgery(in the past 5years). and I really feel sorry for him as I had always.
He is very well off and has never financially helped me with anything (always pays, now and before for lucnh etc. but that is it). He/they have helped their3 little "whatevers" of course and I had always helped rhem babysit etc.
Now what to do....tell him how I feel about things (don't want him using me again and any thing I do for him benefits his kids as in releving their minds of responsibilty for his health right now) or should I ignore my feelings of being "very" annoyed regarding the past and some things in the present and just spend as much time with him as I want whether that is one day a week or one day a year.
Thanks for listening
"really annoyed over my Labor Day Weekend"
Tina
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