My boy and girl are 22 months apart. After being married 14 yrs we decided to start a family. I was afraid my eggs would dry up!............so we had both close.......lol. I had my girl at 35, my boy at 37.
Its quite the challenge, I was used to doing what I wanted when I wanted, NO more of that! You make alot of sacrifices for your kids, money, time, they come first and its totally worth it. I have more patience then I ever had before!!
I think if I was to change anything I would have had them further apart and had them at a younger age. They have lots of energy, where my energy level doesnt compare. But I think when they are older I will be so glad I had them close in age. My son is hard to handle, hes two, weighs 72 lbs and every few people can pick him up. Its hard to find a babysitter........lol
If I would have started earlier I think I would have had 3 children, but spaced further apart.
For those of you who have 4 to more kids...........YOU GO GIRL!......hahaha. I definitely would not be cut out for that........Im just in awe of those who can manage so many kiddos. |