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Originally Posted by Momofone Thanks so much for understanding. I am crying so hard right now.
I am mad. I am pissed. Dixie never got out of my arms. Never. We never had a problem with her getting loose from us. I was upset, and tried to be understanding, but I will be honest, I am so so mad. But I also do understand accidents can happen, but I am still floored that she mentioned selling me another pup. (for half off)
She was my baby! And she is gone. And won't come back. I can't deal with that. Why did this happen? |
I am so sorry for your loss.
I understand some of the feelings that you are going through. In July my Phoebe passed away. The vet that saw her was not my regular vet and I must admit to you that when I think of him the first thing that comes to my mind is Dr. Death. I have moved beyond some of the feelings, but the loss does not leave.
Allow yourself the time to grieve.
When YOU are ready then go back and talk to the breeder/puppysitter, explain to her that you left your baby in her care and she was totally responsible for her safety and well being while in her care and that she needs to provide you at no cost or expense to you, with a new puppy.
I would hope that she was just so devastated and just did not know what to do or say but the wrong thing came out.
If she chooses, to not replace your baby at her cost, then I would share your story in your town.
She is in the business of puppysitting and also selling puppies. Reputation is everything!
You mentioned you probably would not stay on YT because of the pain, for me YT helped me get through, when my friends and even some family(not household) could not understand why I was still struggling. People here understand and are very supportive.
Phoebe has been gone now for 5 weeks and I still cry, I still wonder if my vet had seen her would the out come have been different.
Everyone knows I have good days and bad days. It is no different than losing human. No matter what other people think.
My prayers are with you.