My parents have 3 daughters...no sons. I'm the oldest of the 3. When I got engaged in Feb 2005, my parents said that they would pay for my then fiance (now husband), me, our 2 families, and our closest friends to go to Hawaii and get married and stay 2 weeks. I was ALLLLLLL about it. But, hubby's parents wanted a "wedding" with all their friends. Needless to say we had a freaking huge wedding...400 guests...and a really stressful engagement. Don't get me wrong, I thoroughly enjoyed my wedding, but if I had to do it over again, I would have told the in-laws to shove it and I would've gone to Hawaii!