This exact thing happened to a friend I work with. She told her daughter that she was paying for "X" amount of dinners and if the inlaws wanted to invite extra they had to pay for it themselves....and they did. They were having a sit down dinner...so she had to know exactly how many plates to pay for and she requested the difference from them.
I would just lay the law down or have your mom tell her! I eloped, and would do it again in a heartbeat! We did have a small reception, which was stressfull enough...can't imagine planning a wedding.
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