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Originally Posted by lolabella Tell your MIL she can't do thatttt!!!!! WHAT? Perhaps you shouldn't worry though. Who would go to a wedding if they did not receive an inviation from the couple?
I had a nontraditional wedding with 50 people, which was supposed to be easier on me to plan with classes going on, but I wish we had just eloped. I mean my wedding day was the happiest day of my life, but the previous 4 months were the most stressful and miserable!!!! I'd say just grab your hubby-to-be, go to a romantic Carribean beach, elope and keep your money in your pocket. Just my opinion. That's what I wish we had done.
Or, at least try to do whatever is going to please you since IT IS YOUR DAY!!! That includes calling up your MIL and saying "why are you doing this to me?" or "Please stop inviting people we do not desire to see at our wedding."
Good luck though. It all works out in the end... somehow. |
I asked her stop inviting people that my fiance and I do not know and whom are not part of our lives, but she got mad me. Oh well, I am not going to worry about her feeling right now, because this is not about her it is about me and my fiance and what we want.
My fiance wanted to elope, but when we told my parents that we were just thing about going to the Bahamas or somewhere to get married, my dad got this disappointing look on face. I felt that he really wanted to see me in a pretty dress and give me way since I am is oldest daughter and the last one to get married. I could not hurt my dad, so my fiance agreed with me and my mom on a small, backyard wedding. My fiance family was also included in this desicion and they still did not offer to help with the cost. My fiance and I have help pay for stuff when we can, heck I even paid for my on bridal pictures.