Tell your MIL she can't do thatttt!!!!! WHAT? Perhaps you shouldn't worry though. Who would go to a wedding if they did not receive an inviation from the couple?
I had a nontraditional wedding with 50 people, which was supposed to be easier on me to plan with classes going on, but I wish we had just eloped. I mean my wedding day was the happiest day of my life, but the previous 4 months were the most stressful and miserable!!!! I'd say just grab your hubby-to-be, go to a romantic Carribean beach, elope and keep your money in your pocket. Just my opinion. That's what I wish we had done.
Or, at least try to do whatever is going to please you since IT IS YOUR DAY!!! That includes calling up your MIL and saying "why are you doing this to me?" or "Please stop inviting people we do not desire to see at our wedding."
Good luck though. It all works out in the end... somehow.
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