when i first got married, well before that, my x told me my parents should pay.. i told him to take a walk, they dont have that kind of money.
we had 300 at my wedding.. anyway, mom paid for my dress. this, that and plenty more.. believe me... shes the best... we both paid for our whole wedding,, if we want to get married, than i said to him we both will pay..
i think both of you should do the same thing...dont have what you cant afford... dont fight over it either.... im glad my parents didnt pay for my wedding cause im now divorced and would of felt terrible..
good luck
i say elope if its gonna cause problems..123 your married, then have a party |