Since I've had Gia she seems to be more affectionate toward my fiancé rather than me ( and I don't know why). It hurts my feeling too because I'm with her all day, I clean up after her, I feed her, I bathe her, and I'm the one who wakes up in the middle of the night & takes her out of her crate when it time to potty. If I try to pick her up & hold her she'll just whine until I put her down, but if Will picks her up she'll stay in his arms all day. Maybe because she can sense he's a male? I don't know I already know the next yorkie I get I want him or her to be more affectionate towards me (I still love Gia though).