Ok..I didnt explain my self well

.I meant that you can let them go (my vet said you dont have to hold them together the WHOLE time) but you have to stay with them or near by.He showed me how to do this by holding Jess

 I had NO idea that some dogs needed help before then so I was surprised but thankful that he took the time to explain

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Oops,I forgot to add that he also told me that only a few dogs need help.As I said before,we arent about to show other species how to do this...its something they can ALL do alone in the end and always have.Not wanting to wait or wanting to hurry the process along is just an option.My vet is awsome
