I hate to say this - but that sounds like FUN ....14 is still young - but not young - you know ? If she had a good time and is a good kid - it can't hurt her to let loose once in a while. But I do agree - no tats - That IS too young to premanently mark your body - I got mine at that age and really regretted it. Especially after having kids. (it was on a place that GREW)

Try to stay calm if you talk to her - you dont want her NOT telling you stuff....and look at it this way - NO drugs right ? As long as she stays away from that stuff - she should be ok