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Originally Posted by RLC12345678 I would be nothing but nice to him from this point forward. Tell him that he has your best wishes for a life in South Carolina. Tell him that he needs to come over to your house to talk with you and hubby. Then when he gets there, tell him that you love him and support his decision to move, but that you are not paying for ANYTHING of his anymore. Tell him the reason you pay for stuff is because you enjoy his company and his sister needs him, and that he is in school. If he doesn't go to school next semester and live with his sister as planned, then you aren't holding up your end of the deal either. You don't want him to think that he can have his cake and eat it, too. If he wants to run off with this girl that he is not engaged to and live like an adult and make adult decisions, then he is going to have to have all the responsibility that comes with it. That includes paying for ALL his own stuff. CUT HIM OFF! |
I was going to suggest that myself. At 23, he is a man and if he wants to be off on his own, then he needs to know exactly what that is. I'm already preparing my 15 year old and letting him know now, that once he's out, he's on his own. I'm dreading it too.