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Originally Posted by RLC12345678 I would be nothing but nice to him from this point forward. Tell him that he has your best wishes for a life in South Carolina. Tell him that he needs to come over to your house to talk with you and hubby. Then when he gets there, tell him that you love him and support his decision to move, but that you are not paying for ANYTHING of his anymore. Tell him the reason you pay for stuff is because you enjoy his company and his sister needs him, and that he is in school. If he doesn't go to school next semester and live with his sister as planned, then you aren't holding up your end of the deal either. You don't want him to think that he can have his cake and eat it, too. If he wants to run off with this girl that he is not engaged to and live like an adult and make adult decisions, then he is going to have to have all the responsibility that comes with it. That includes paying for ALL his own stuff. CUT HIM OFF! |
Well, Cory already is paying for school, his apartment and his car. The only thing we pay is books, car insurance and the "I need $20" or "can you float me a loan till payday?". But, obviously that will stop and we won't be right there to help him out.
I feel like I'm done discussing this with him, because he isn't going to change his mind anyway. I just want him to tell my husband because I'll be left with damage control and I'm certainly not going to start that voluntarily!! I've already told him that I expect he and his girlfriend for dinner on Sunday nights as that will be our only chance to know her at all. But, of course they can't make this Sunday! I would love to think he'll go there and change his mind, but I don't see that happening unless he and Liz part ways. And then only if he isn't pigheaded!!
Anyhow, thanks everyone for allowing me to vent and sharing with me!