I am so sorry for the loss of yur beloved Mother. I am taking care of my 86 year old parents and while some days are trying I always try to put myself in their position and treat them with all the dignity they deserve. As we age we loose so much of our selves and sometimes it's the little things that seem so insignificant to us that helps them get through each day. I thank God for each day I have with them and no I will have no regrets when they are gone only unbearable sadness. 2 of my 3 siblings rarely visit and one hardly calls and they are both close enough to do both. I would feel so comforted by hearing her voice she's letting you know she's ok and she appreciated all you did for her. In time your memories will bring you happiness but it all takes time. I will keep you in my prayers. |