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Originally Posted by Kenzies Grandma My husband and I have been married for 35 yrs so needless to say I don't look like any of the girls in these magazines or on internet sites. However I also have to say that I don't need to worry about it because both my husband and I have the same view of marriage. And that is that the only one whom we want to have those kind of thoughts about are each other. It is definitely a case of love and respect, your husband should love you as he does himself and I can't really see most men being OK with their wives fantasizing about someone else. If you don't have trust, love and respect in your marriage it will never last against all the pressures that our world puts on it. Just my opinion, but I would have a serious talk with your husband so he knows how it makes you feel, and at the same time ask him how he would feel about you doing the same. Remember you both promised to love and honor each other. Ok, lol, I'll get off my soapbox now. (I just really think that there would be a lot less divorce if people really tried to live up to their vows instead of thinking of themselves first).  |
Well Said!!!
The conversation has not been brought up since I started this thread, I know he has these mags at work, and I know he is not the only one who looks at them, I mean men will be men, my husband says no man is inocent and they ALL look, it's just natural. He says he dosent mean to, it just happens and he says alot of times he dosent even realize he is doing it, he dosent gawk or stare, but if he see's a attractive female, he looks. I admit, I do the same thing, we were down at are park today for a concert and there was a few guys that made my head turn, and my husband was right there with me, and I will say there were ALOT of females down there that needed to cover up or put a bra on lol
I guess I just have to see it as he is married to me, I know he would never hurt me or betray me in anyway, we love each other dearly, we waited many years to find each other and the love we share is unconditional and rare.
I just hope that if he does look at these at work, I get the payoffs at home!!! and I will say, I cant complain!
