My husband and I have been married for 35 yrs so needless to say I don't look like any of the girls in these magazines or on internet sites. However I also have to say that I don't need to worry about it because both my husband and I have the same view of marriage. And that is that the only one whom we want to have those kind of thoughts about are each other. It is definitely a case of love and respect, your husband should love you as he does himself and I can't really see most men being OK with their wives fantasizing about someone else. If you don't have trust, love and respect in your marriage it will never last against all the pressures that our world puts on it. Just my opinion, but I would have a serious talk with your husband so he knows how it makes you feel, and at the same time ask him how he would feel about you doing the same. Remember you both promised to love and honor each other. Ok, lol, I'll get off my soapbox now. (I just really think that there would be a lot less divorce if people really tried to live up to their vows instead of thinking of themselves first).
