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Originally Posted by cribal Yes, I believe in being given a second chance b/c I know I've had my share but there's a time when we all need to grow up and I don't feel he's going to ever do it. His dad won't put his foot down and let him learn his lessons. He always bails him out of jail and gives him a job every time he comes home and says I'm gonna do good this time. He's 27 years old, has 4 kids by three different moms, doesn't pay child support and the only reason he's back in NC is b/c he has warrant's out for his arrest in New Orlean's. His dad know's all this and oesn't try and make him resposible for it. I know his to old for his dad to tell him what to do but damn don't support him by giving him a job and letting him run from the law. My step-family is messed up. |
Definitely co-dependency and enabling behavior. He doesn't have a prayer to change as long as his family is in so deep. Too bad his dad doesn't realize he's only helping him to continue to be a disaster!