[sashajade]

i think the one thing we are missing here is the fact that men are well how should i put it? easy to please and not as bright as women, if a woman looked at a playgirl mag she would be making up storys in her head about what he was like how he sounded were they would have sex and all that he would nearly end up being a real person and we would of prob even picked a job for him and how much he had in the bank but with a man he just looks at the pretty pics lol she hasnt got a name he dont know were they have sex to him she just has lady bits that are not his wifes or girlfriends, to put it bluntly if you feel in the mood and your partner dont then women go off by there self and can use there mind and maybe some toys to get them going but men cant they need pics something simple they dont need to think about lol. i can understand why you dont like it and as he knows you dont he should stop it.