My hubby doesnt buy these but I know the guys he works with buys them and keep them in the bathrooms there. (gross lol) He knows this type of stuff is not welcome in our home and he knows I dont approve of it. He has never brought one home, but I'm not stupid. I'm sure he looks at them at work (thats my guess) He knows how I feel and respects that and therefore we wouldnt do it. I also dont like the whole titty bar thing. He never goes to bars so I dont have to worry about that. His boss was getting married a few years ago and they were taking him out and going to a titty bar here in town. Hubby said the guys at work were giving him a hard time about not being able to go. I was thankful that he respected my decision about that and I told him he could go ahead and go... Oh course he didnt try and talk me out of it.. LOL It was just a one time thing and I wasn't worried about it. He was only gone a few hours. Some of the women at those places are nasty and gross.. hahaha. I dont think its bout being an insecure person... Its about being MARRIED... When you decide to take on the oath to get married you also know that you can no longer do some of the things you use to do. If men are single and they want to look at these, then go for it.
I see how you feel and I think he should respect your decision. I need to lose weight too and I am insecure to a certain extent, but My hubby knows this too and he wouldnt want to make me feel worse. Plus he would be in the dog house.... and I would have to hold out!!!! LOL LOL
