OK! I REALLY have to chime in on this one.
First let me say: my husband is not into that. (we are personally sick of seeing close to that stuff on regular TV shows. I have to monitor my son's cartoons now.)
I agree that if it bothers you then he SHOULD STOP. I also agree with what Villette said. "Men can be so DUMB" Some act like they have never see a ta-ta (boob) before. Really guys!
I personally don't think it's YOU that is insecure! It bothers you and understandably so. Some men can act like they really stand a shot with those women in those magazines. You could try walking by the next time he's looking and say: "humm, wonder what her boyfriend looks like?" or "Didn't that one used to be a man?" that one would have to ruin any mental images, or one of my favorites that my husband used to say "Her biggest fear has to be a needle because if that thing popped it would be a flood of silicon!" LOL!
Anyway you handle it don't feel bad about yourself. HE is NOT a reflection of you. You are human and you deserve to be treated like one. Good luck.
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