I am only young so i am not THAT experienced with issues like this.
But here goes............. I feel that when you are with a man, he should only have eyes for you,it is disrespectful and hurtful to eye up other women, wether its in the street,tv or magazine. i know a lot of people say look but dont touch, but personally i say keep your eyes shut
Missy you should not dislike how you look,i have seen pics of you on other threads and you look great. Dont forget all those models are airbrushed to perfection,but in real life look like mingers!
I am very lucky with my fiancee,he isn't into any of that stuff,he thinks it is disrespectful to your partner.
Could your husband maybe read raunchy novels instead of those magazines? also you need to entice him girl! go visit provocateur (sp?) or ann summers! or whatever shops you have in usa.
By the way missy's hubby i am not insecure